Lead with actions
i am sure that ultimately we need to do both. We need to speak about Jesus in a real, credible and passionate way but at the same time we need to demonstrate what Jesus was talking about and represent him through our actions. My experience is that in Australia at this point in time there are lots of people who have heard the talk about Jesus but not enough who have seen it lived out well in a compelling way. So, I tend to try and lead with actions, they are my trump card, and then trust that the time will come to speak. I don't think one is more important than the other. I just think that it is reading the situation and then choosing the best response in the moment. ???